The Right One

From: "beth Adolfo"
Subject: the right one
Date: Thu, 22 Jul 2004 01:09:58 +0800

Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong...
it is best to be the right person for the one you love
and start from there...you'll always end up disappointed
when you set standards and define a "right person" for
you...and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God is
preparing somebody for you."

Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because
you can never find love if you insist that you are
already into it. Try to find time to really understand
your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what
you really want in a relationship. You're right, there's
no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a
compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you
already knew that you're too big to fit into a small
sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably
break it and pay for the damages you have made.

If you knew and felt that the relationship will not
last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the
consequences and live like hell for the rest of your
life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you
can't make it any better by just pretending you still
have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself
a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a
chance to grow and give your heart a much needed
attention. Then you will find that you have made the
right decision and you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can't leave someone and see
them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's
just pity.

We call it love when we're too attached and think that
losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and
unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood,
its just that we're too much dependent to them.

We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,
no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken,
its just insecurity.

But no matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn't something you can buy or beg.
It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you
can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it
will knock before you when you least expect it to
come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,
but don't forget that it can also make you the most
miserable person in the whole galaxy...